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Why Do Calm Men Become Aggressive Monsters When Driving? [건강잇숏] 얌전하던 사람도 운전하면 돌변하는 이유

by Editor in Chief 2023. 1. 10.
Why do men who are calm become aggressive when driving?
 
Driving personality reveals who you really are. Men are interested in wheels and moving vehicles. 
 
If you've ever been a male driver, you've probably experienced a “burst” of anger: yelling, cursing, or even rolling down your window and directing your anger directly at the other driver, especially if s/he is smaller than you. Why is it that when you drive, you turn into the Hulk? 

On the road, emergencies can happen at any time. The moment we feel the urgency, we have an immediate reaction. The anger that flares up while driving can also be considered an immediate reaction, a mixture of surprise and anger. Experiences of being ignored or insulted while driving can also be a great source of anger. It's easy to reserve your anger for the road, thinking that you need to be aggressive, too, but don't let it become a habit. 

If you get angry easily, you may react to everyday situations, such as being cut off in traffic or running red lights. If you find yourself getting angry often and intensely, consider why you're angry and whether the situation is actually worth getting angry about. If no amount of effort can control your anger, consider not getting behind the wheel for a while.
 

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Why Do Calm Men Become Aggressive When Driving?

Driving personality can often reveal a person’s true nature. For many men, the competitive drive is strongly tied to activities involving wheels, moving vehicles, sports, business, and etc. If you’ve ever been a male driver, you’ve probably experienced a “burst” of anger—yelling, cursing, or even rolling down your window to direct your frustration at another driver, especially if they seem smaller or weaker than you. Why is it that when you drive, you turn into a monster?

 

On the road, emergencies can happen at any time, and the urgency of these situations triggers immediate reactions. The anger that flares up while driving is often a mix of surprise and irritation. Experiences of feeling ignored or insulted in everyday settings, can also be a significant source of anger for men on the road. It’s easy to channel your frustration onto the road, thinking you need to be aggressive to navigate it effectively. However, don’t let this aggression become a habit.

 

If a man finds himself getting angry easily and frequently in certain situations, he should consider whether the circumstances are truly worth his anger. Regular outbursts of road rage, like getting upset over being cut off in traffic or someone running a red light, can indicate deeper personality traits related to anger. This aggression on the road can reveal aspects of your true nature that might otherwise remain hidden.

 

If controlling his anger feels impossible, it might be wise for him to take a break from driving for a while. Reflect on what type of personality makes someone prone to such intense anger. Then he needs consider seeking ways to manage these emotions constructively.

 

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